The news of Artem Chigvintsev's divorce from Nikki Garcia has sent shockwaves through the entertainment world. The former "Dancing With The Stars" pro is seeking joint custody of their 4-year-old son, Matteo, and spousal support, while Garcia has asked for sole custody and no financial support. But what exactly led to this messy breakup? 

Chigvintsev cited "irreconcilable differences" as the reason for the breakdown in their marriage, but what does that really mean? Was it the result of years of "volatile" arguments, as sources claim, or was there something more sinister at play? 

The couple's relationship has been plagued by allegations of verbal abuse, and Chigvintsev's recent arrest for domestic violence has only added fuel to the fire. But what's really going on behind closed doors?

One expert notes, "Domestic violence is often a pattern of behavior that escalates over time. It's not just one isolated incident." Has Chigvintsev's behavior been a red flag from the start, or has it only recently become apparent?

Perhaps the most pressing question is, what's best for Matteo? Should he be raised in a household with two parents who are constantly fighting, or should Garcia be granted sole custody to ensure his safety and well-being?

As the divorce drama unfolds, one thing is clear: the consequences of divorce can be far-reaching and devastating.

The Dance of Divorce: A Chaotic Waltz of Custody and Support

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