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Dating Apps Under Fire: Survivors Speak Out Against Safety Failures

Denver, USAFriday, December 26, 2025
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The Allegations

  • Victims' Claims: Six women, victims of Denver cardiologist Stephen Matthews, allege that dating apps like Hinge and Tinder failed to protect them.
  • Repeated Reports: Despite multiple reports, Matthews remained active on the platforms and even received a "Standout" match promotion.
  • Company's Claim: Match Group, the parent company, claimed they had banned Matthews.

The Dangerous Environment

  • Ease of Disappearance: The lawsuit highlights how users can unmatch and disappear before reports can be made, making it difficult for victims to take action.
  • Known Issues: The lawsuit states that Match Group has been aware of these issues for years but has not taken sufficient action.

The Investigation

  • Secret Data: An investigation revealed that Match Group had information about the harm caused on its platforms but kept it secret.
  • Broken Promises: The company promised to share this data with the public but never followed through.
  • Reduced Safety Teams: Instead, they scaled back their safety teams.

The Conviction

  • Sentencing: Matthews was sentenced to 158 years to life in prison for drugging and assaulting 11 women between 2019 and 2023.
  • Anonymous Lawsuit: The women suing Match Group are doing so anonymously to protect their identities.

Match Group's Response

  • Commitment to Safety: Match Group states they are committed to making their apps safer.
  • New Measures: They mention using AI tools, ID verification, and better communication with law enforcement.
  • Effectiveness: Recent tests show that banned users can still easily sign up for new accounts on Hinge, Plenty of Fish, and OkCupid.
  • Tinder's New Feature: Tinder has introduced a new feature called Face Check, but it may not have prevented Matthews from returning.

Survivor's Story

  • Alexa's Experience: One of the survivors, Alexa, believes that better safety measures could have prevented her assault.
  • Impact on Life: She no longer uses dating apps and has accepted that she may never date again.
  • Company's Responsibility: She feels that companies like Hinge have the resources to make their platforms safer but have not prioritized it.
  • Section 230: Legal experts say the lawsuit faces challenges due to Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act, which grants online platforms immunity from liability for most user-generated content.
  • Past Lawsuits: In the past, similar lawsuits have failed because of this law.

Determined Survivors

  • Holding Accountable: Despite these challenges, the survivors are determined to hold Match Group accountable.
  • Hope for Change: They hope their lawsuit will lead to better safety measures on dating apps.
  • Preventing Future Harm: They want to ensure that no one else has to go through what they experienced.

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