A Friend's Choice: Vaccines and Trust

Background

• Angela, a free spirit shaped by a tough past, is raising her baby without vaccines.
• Baby's father is new to the area; they recently tied the knot.
• Her past includes abuse and a relationship with someone who believed in wild theories, influencing her decision to skip the COVID vaccine.

The Shift in Perspective

• During pregnancy, Angela discussed vaccinating her baby and even getting the Tdap shot herself.
• Now, she shares anti-vaccine posts online and becomes defensive when challenged.
• Strained friendships, especially with those who believe in vaccines.

The Current Situation

• New mom struggles: Angela is isolated, tired, and still recovering physically.
• Possible postpartum depression: It's crucial to support her without judgment.
• Encourage her to talk to her doctor about her feelings.

Vaccination Concerns

• Not just Angela's problem: Her baby's doctor will have opportunities to discuss vaccination.
• Future moments like daycare or school may lead to vaccination.
• It's not your job to convince her.

Support vs. Judgment

• If you can't accept her choice, it's okay to step back.
• She needs support, even if it's not from you.
• Judging her won't help; kindness goes a long way.